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Say The Hard Thing · 2 min
Say The Hard Thing Without Making It Harder
Describe the situation. We'll give you 3 ways to deliver it — grounded in proven feedback models — so you sound like a thoughtful human, not a script.
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Feedback That Lands
How to Say the Hard Thing Without Making It Harder
Good feedback names the specific behavior and its impact — not the person's character — then makes room for their side of it. The hard part isn't knowing that; it's finding the exact words in the moment, when you're worried about the relationship. This tool takes your real situation and writes it three ways, each grounded in a proven model — SBI (Situation-Behavior-Impact), Radical Candor, and a warm "Kind & Clear" framing — so you can pick the delivery that fits the person and use it in your next 1:1 or message.
Common Questions
Giving Feedback, Answered
How do you give difficult feedback to an employee?
Lead with the specific behavior and its impact, not a character judgment — "In yesterday's review the numbers weren't ready, and the client meeting stalled," not "you're careless." State it plainly, own your part where there is one, and end with a genuine question that opens dialogue rather than closing it. The goal is a shared plan, not just delivering a verdict.
What is the best framework for giving feedback?
Three proven models cover most situations. SBI (Situation-Behavior-Impact) keeps you factual and blame-free. Radical Candor pairs caring personally with challenging directly. "Kind & Clear" leads with warmth then states the hard thing without hedging. This tool writes your specific feedback in all three so you can pick the one that fits the person and the moment.
How do you start a hard conversation without making it worse?
Signal the intent and keep it short: "I want to talk about the launch — I'm raising it because I think you're capable of more here." Naming that you're on their side lowers the defensiveness before you get to the substance. Avoid burying the message in so much cushioning that they miss it, and avoid the ambush open ("we need to talk"). Say the hard thing early, then make room to listen.
Is the Say The Hard Thing tool free?
Yes, it's free to use. You describe your situation and instantly get an honest read on what's really going on plus a preview of your first framing — then enter your email to unlock all three full scripts. Rypple, the AI coach it comes from, is what helps you get the wording right for every hard conversation, ongoing — in your real 1:1s, Slack, and meetings.
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